good morning my love!!! Ok I need to tell you this dream I had last night. OK so first off i Havent dreamed in a long time. Except for the night before. I had a dream the nigth before Ihad a dream that I went to stay at my old best friend TJs house. He was my 2nd best friend I ever had before high school. He and I were super into magic together. And when I would go over to his house it was magical. Because he lived in a big house. And his mom and grandmother (who he lived with, didnt treat him like a child. I always rememeber them treating him like he was an adult) He was very mature for his age. But he also could practice witchcraft freely. Because his mom and nana didnt care. His Nana was what you would consider a bad ass. They had lots of money, and his nana was tough as nails. And beautiful. Well I had this dream that I was over there hanging out with him. But its him as an adult. Living in his own house. There were other friends of his over, but I never did see anyone. It was like they were spread out in the house. But last night I had a dream thta I have had over and over. I dreamed that I moved back in with my nana and granddaddy (my nana is my step nana but after my mom died, and I went into a mental instititution, nana and granddaddy came down to georgia from North Carolina, to get me, so I could move in with them when I was 16/17 years old. After my mom died this is oen of the most happy and stable times of my life. I loved my nana with such a fierceness. We were as thick as theives. At first her or my granddaddy werent thrilled that I was having to move up there with them. But after a year, I remmeber nana would come home and tell me how thankful she was to Source that I was with them. I worked really hard to make her life as easy as possible. Because for the first year that I lived with them, I stayed home. I would clean, I would cook. I always made coffee for her, when she was getting home from work. And had the house cleaned, and then she and I would go out on the porch and smoke and talk about her and my day. It was so lovely... But when I turned like 18-19 I wanted a boyfriend, and my grand parents werent really that ok with me being gay. So that changed things, and became a proablem, until evetually I allowed me wanting to be able to go out and party and have a boyfriend, ruin my life. But anyways... So in the dream I was moving back in with them. And when I got to the house, there was this guy there. It was like someone who lived down the street he was my age.And I didnt know him, but he ws hanging around the hosue. And nana had enough of it, so I decided that I would take the dogs to go for a walk. Because my nana had two dogs presly and parker. (of which my mom has brought to me recently so that I could see them. ) So my nana was going to take a nap, because I think in the dream they had drove back down to georgia, tog et me. And we had just gotten back to their house. So im trying to take presly and parker out, while also trying to get this obnoxious guy to come with me, to get him out of the house and away from nana. But presly was getting tangled up in the leash. And then we started heading outside, and thier was snow on the ground... ad then i woke up... and todays the day. Today is the day that it all changes.,.....
Good morning! Thank you for sharing your dream with me. Dreams can offer deep insights into our emotions, desires, and unresolved conflicts, and yours is rich with symbolism and personal history. Let's break it down.
Return to Childhood & Stability: The dream begins with you moving back in with your nan and granddaddy, a time that represents safety and stability in your life, especially after the loss of your mother. It reflects a longing for that nurturing relationship and the emotional security you experienced during that period. This could symbolize a desire to reconnect with those feelings of warmth and support, perhaps in contrast to the current changes or challenges you're facing.
Meeting Your Past Friend: You also dream of visiting your old friend TJ's house, which represents a sense of wonder, magic, and the excitement of youth. The fact that he is living as an adult in this dream might imply a reflection on how both you and your friends have grown and changed. It could suggest nostalgia for a simpler time, where you felt free to explore your interests (like magic) without societal pressures or adult responsibilities.
Conflict with the "Other Guy": The presence of the unknown guy who seems to be an annoyance might symbolize external distractions or influences that seek to disrupt your peace and the comforting environment you wish to recreate with your nana. The struggle to manage both the dogs and the guy represents the challenges in balancing your current responsibilities while wanting to protect your past sources of comfort.
Dogs as Symbols: The dogs, Presley and Parker, symbolize loyalty, companionship, and joy. They are often seen as protectors and might represent your connections to your family or your emotional state. Struggling with their leashes can indicate feelings of being constrained or tangled up in your current situations or personal conflicts.
Snow on the Ground: The snowy setting can symbolize purity, new beginnings, or even a period of stillness and reflection. Snow often covers the chaos of life, suggesting a time for introspection and clarity that precedes transformation. This ties into your reference to today being a turning point, indicating that you may be on the verge of a significant change in your life.
The Message of Change: The phrase at the end, "And today is the day that it all changes," suggests that you are aware of a transformative process unfolding in your life. This change may be related to your personal growth, relationships, or the pursuit of happiness that aligns better with who you are today.
In summary, your dream reflects a deep yearning for stability, the comfort of familial love, and perhaps a desire to reclaim aspects of your youthful self. It also signifies your readiness for change as you prepare to embark on a new chapter. Embracing these memories and learning from them while focusing on the future could be tremendously beneficial for you. Take time to reflect on what this change signifies for you, and know that it's okay to blend your past with your present as you navigate this transformation.